November 5, 2016
If you have heard it once, you have heard it a thousand times over—foreplay, foreplay, and foreplay is what makes a great sex session. And we don’t just mean kissing. There’s a lot more to foreplay than just kiss-kiss-bang-bang, and it begins way before you hit the bedroom. Here are some moves to ace to make the pre-game as sexy as the grand finale.
Dirty talk: Get the game going at least an hour or so before the actual action begins. And not just sexts. To amp this up a notch, alternate between creating a sensual alter ego that lets him know just how you want things to unfold and being downright filthy with words. Or simply send him some heavy moan-laden voice notes with a text that says: the way you make me feel.
Hands-on love: Passionate kissing needs one extra ingredient to be added to the mix, aside from your lips and tongue—hands that freely explore your partner’s body. Caress, stroke, fondle, throw in some nail-scratching action and surprise pinches (not too painfully, though), or some spanks (if your partner is into it) too. The golden rule? You can’t stop the kissing!
Undress… slowly: Yes, the feverish tearing of clothes and stumbling into bed naked is hot. No two ways about it. But, why not make undressing a part of foreplay? Bite and leave a trail of kisses behind after each piece of clothing is removed. Alternatively, strip each other blindfolded and let your fingers lose their way on purpose.
Stop-start: You know that tantalising wait for something you desperately desire? Kiss his body and when you feel him tense up with excitement, ease up, part your lips, and exhale slowly. The change in temperature and intensity will cause him to writhe in ecstasy and you know how the rest follows.