November 5, 2016
Ask and you will receive is a saying to be used in every aspect of your life,
including and especially in the bedroom. You don’t want to let an oral sex sesh go
to waste now, do you? Then while his tongue does the talking down there, take
over the reins and direct a show that is guaranteed to leave you breathless in a
Sext first: This move works like a charm since you are able to get each other
worked up even before you get your clothes off and he knows just what you want
in bed tonight.
Tell him where to go: It is a cliché for a reason: more often than not, your man
won’t ask for directions. So simply give unsolicited, clear directions. ‘A little to
the left here, slightly above… ah, perfect!’ Your reaction will be all the brownie
points he needed.
Sugarcoat the instructions: Think about it, you don’t want your moves to be
rudely corrected, do you? Use the constructive criticism rule: first compliment,
then criticise. ‘I really loved that thing you did there. This one doesn’t do much…
can you switch back to that move?’
Hand-play: Ever wondered what to do with those hands when your vagina is
getting some tender loving? Use it to play with yourself or gently move his head
to your sweet spot and ask him to go to town. The key word here is gentle,
though. You don’t want him getting injured mid-action.
You’ve got to move it too: If you find that words are failing you, lift your hips and
move it around until their mouth lines up where you want it. Not only does it get
you all charged up but your partner walks away with the taste of victory in his
mouth for having found that orgasmic spot himself. Win-win!